The Power to forgive
We need to forgive because we unconsciously and consciously put too much burden on ourselves.
What are our burdens?
Matters are faced daily, whether they are in-laws or at home. Among those who have trouble with their husband, mother-in-law, brother, sister, or parents about something or such pain that they suffer from repeatedly.
It seems very difficult to forgive in such a situation,
Domestic violence
In domestic violence, a woman suffers emotionally, mentally, and physically.
Such traumatized people find it difficult to forgive because they cannot forget their pain. Childhood abuse causes irreparable damage to a person which affects his mind very badly.
What are the worldly harms of not forgiving?
1. Depression
2. High blood pressure
3. Diabetes
4. Anxiety
5. The immune system becomes weak
6. According to scientific research, people who cannot forgive, have their muscles become stiff.
Why should we forgive?
💓 The biggest reason is that this is the order of our Allah Almighty!
🤲🏻 Keep asking Allah Almighty to forgive the transgression of others.
📖 Keep taking guidance from the Holy Qur'an that how our Prophets not only showed patience in all kinds of excesses but also sought the goodwill of their people in every way and kept on forgiving them, for the sake of the pleasure of their Allah Almighty.
🌀 Convince yourself that we don't keep ourselves in the past anymore.
(Acknowledge Yourself)
(Free yourself and move on)
You can get yourself out of the painful agony of the past by recognizing your purpose in life.
(Set ourselves free from painful memories of the past by realizing our potential goal in life).
🌀 You can free yourself from the tormenting behavior of others by engaging yourself in purposeful activities.
(set ourselves free from others' abusive trap by keeping ourselves busy with constructive tasks).
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Benefits of Forgiveness
When we keep ourselves engaged in purposeful, creative activities instead of reacting to people's bad behavior, we will feel calmer.
7/10 or 9/10?
💎 Forgiveness does not mean embracing. This means the pain that someone else gave me, I don't give to him!
FORGIVENESS DOESN'T MEAN RECONCILIATION WITH THE OFFENDER!!!
❣️ Keep a moderate distance and do as much as Allah Almighty has made us responsible.
To be continued.....